Man, what have you changed for love?
Love has great power, and sometimes even has the effect of saving lives.
Therefore, women always hope to change men through the strange benefits of love.
But in fact, a man is a kind of enclosure animal. He is accustomed to living in his own track and territory. Once other people invade, he will inevitably have a rejection reaction.
Therefore, some stubborn men insist: I am myself and do not change for anyone. After 20 or 30 years of cultivation, is it for women that I have changed my nature?
How can it be?
Therefore, rivers and mountains are easy to change, and it is difficult to change the nature.
But now, we are faced with this problem.
There is no problem in being an emperor.
But when two people get along, the gears run in. What we want is for everyone to change a little, the purpose is to reconcile the yin and yang contradictions, so as not to upset every day and mess up the bipolar world.
Well, dear men, whether you are in love or not, the past and present love experiences will definitely make you feel a lot of emotion and introspection.
Then, please answer my question frankly: What have you changed for love, 1. The smoking habit, despite the faint smell of tobacco on men, may be a fatal and seductive “medicine” for women.
Therefore, when some beautiful singers sang “Taste”, they were so tender and tender.
But once brought into the daily life, smoky, from the sofa to the quilt, there is a smell of smokey barbecue everywhere, women often frown to protest that men are so “detoxifying.”
Therefore, when women can’t bear it, it will inevitably develop to formulate norms.
The bedroom must first be designated as a smoking area. Under the exhaust hood or on the balcony, it becomes the corner of a man enjoying tobacco.
Of course, if a man is willing to submit the committee to himself, reduce the amount of smoking, or even quit smoking, then this man has been transformed by a woman to be quite effective and can definitely be used as a model for publicity.
2, the habit of rest and rest men’s work and rest system is often more chaotic, not as accurate as women when walking.
They were crazy all night long.
Playing games or playing mahjong is overwhelming, everything will be left behind.
As a result, women will come to supervise, and the phone or text message to check the house every day will definitely be indispensable.
As time goes on, men get a little conditioned.
For example, at 10 o’clock in the evening, if there is a phone call or text message, it must be a girlfriend who comes to check the news.
In fact, women are born “directors”.
Day after day, the morning and evening habit of asking for reports lately gradually put men on the track of regular life.
3, the concept of tolerance women in love are mostly willful, what you want is what you want.
Part of the man was a bit like a slave.
That’s why the statement “man after marriage, slave turns over to be general”.
No way, when in love, a man always pets a woman and works according to her mind.
For example, on a dating program, she once said that she wanted to watch a movie, once that she wanted to eat barbecue, and then she said that she wanted to make a bar.
For women, plans don’t change as quickly.
If men reprimand women for fickleness, women will respond that it is a manifestation of life’s interest.
At this time, if men do not have the concept of being tolerant, war will inevitably continue.
Of course, men with a serious masculinity complex often have the toughness of “only truth.”
Then, one goes east and one goes west, and they don’t buy each other. As a result, they can only go south and far away.
At this time, men’s tolerance of women may be able to relax.
Otherwise, there will be fission of breaking up.
Therefore, love comes and goes, it is easy to fall in love, but difficult to get along.
Listen to how men explain their love and change. Fall in love with a man like a polar bear1. What do you think is the difference between men before and after they fall in love?
For example, what animal is it like?
If you are not in love, if you have a direction, then chasing a girl passionately, that state is a bit like a horse.
Because if a man considers a woman, he is absolutely tough, and the spirit of perseverance sometimes makes a woman particularly moved.
Once in love, men sometimes feel like polar bears.
Strong, persevering, and even majestic.
2. When you first fell in love, in what ways did you feel that you had made great efforts to change?
It may be a work relationship. I usually smoke a lot. I basically consume one and a half packs of cigarettes a day.
Later I heard her repeatedly advise.
Feel really bad for the body.
So take control slowly.
At least, I smoke half a pack of cigarettes a day.
I think whether it is for love or for her, I should treat myself kindly. During the time of love, I basically consciously conduct a cleaning every week. 3, what caused your subsequent fission?
After she graduated from college, I was looking for a job, and I arranged it all by myself. Maybe I arranged too much.
So much so that she lost her initiative and invaded her too much space.
Made her gradually feel free.
Later, when I found out that she had another “condition”, I realized that the trend had gone, and everyone could only stop there.
Abandon a period of chicken-chick feelings 1. Have you changed a lot before and after your love?
When I was a bachelor, I often attended friend gatherings.
Bar activities and programs are rich and exciting every day.
Then fell in love and the nightlife gradually disappeared.
For example, around 10pm, I must be waiting for her phone call at home.
She has a bad temper, and I will buy a small gift to cheer her up.
2. Why are we separated?
It may be that his temper is sometimes too impatient and easy to get angry.
Despite my efforts to control, it still seems difficult to change.
Maybe everyone is young and there is no need to be so tightly bound.
Later, I started the company myself, and I was busy, thinking about the chicken rib feelings of no productivity productivity, so I took the initiative and broke the communication.
Change yourself, pay attention to love once, when you are single, what animal do you think a man would love again?
After you fall in love, what animal should a man feel like?
When I’m single, I think a man in love is like a cat. For a woman, he is obedient.
Because love is often immersed in sweetness.
At that time, I met a beautiful girl dancing Latin dance, and the feeling of falling in love at first sight made me recklessly draw in.
After falling in love for 2 months, I slowly woke up. I think a man should be like an eagle, flying high to see far.
2. What changed for love?
When in love, I go shopping with her two or three times a week, and each time is basically more than two hours.
I am very comfortable with her.
We were living together at that time, and I was fully contracted for household chores such as shopping and cooking.
I can’t bear to let her do these things.
Of course she is so young, and her ideas are inevitable.
I can understand all this.
Because I like her youth and cuteness very much.
At that time, even in the face of all kinds of obstructions and oppositions from her parents, I still took my heart to her.
Later, under the strong intervention of her parents, she suddenly evaporated and replaced her cell phone.
I can’t find her again.
A love dream suddenly disappeared after half a year.
Running Man 1. What kind of animals do you think men look like before and after being in love?
When a man is single, if he really wants to fall in love, he will hunt around like a hunting dog, searching for prey.
Once locked in, he looks like a pug, and shakes his head and tails to look funny.
Once broken, like a stray dog without direction.
2. What are you doing when you are in love?
After dating, I found that dating between two people consumes a lot of time.
She lives to the east of Shanghai, and I live to the west.
For the convenience of dating, we settled at Xujiahui, which is the midpoint of our distance.
I make two appointments three times a week, and I will naturally pay for all the extras, more than 100 yuan at a time.
After regular shows like eating, you can go shopping or watch a movie.
So, before the end of the month, I “moonlight” ahead of time.
3. In the process of love, what has deeply touched your nerves?
I remember shopping when she had a stomachache. I was riding a bicycle and it started to rain again.
At that time, I was really anxious. At that time, how much I hoped that there was a house and a car, so that I could take better care of her and give her a more secure life.
I always feel that a man’s sense of responsibility is so important to love and marriage.